Guest Post by David Haas - Parenting When Cancer Hits

I am posting a guest article by David Haas.  ~Angela

Parenting When Cancer Hits


Parenting is a tough job, and it can be especially difficult when a parent is diagnosed with cancer. Just hearing words like Breast Cancer, Melanoma, and mesothelioma can strike fear in the hearts of dedicated parents. Many parents worst fear is developing a deadly disease is and they may not be around to see their children grow up, but parents actually have an advantage because their children support them and help them fight against the cancer. One thing these parents must remember is that children are remarkably resilient and they can help their parents get through the tough times, even if they are very young.

According to statistics compiled by the National Cancer Institute, just over half of all cancer patients survive for ten years after diagnosis. The numbers can be scary, but it is more likely than not that you will be around for years to come. Giving up is not healthy for you and it's important for your children to see you being positive so that they don't worry too much.

Parents who have cancer should try to explain their disease and treatment plan to their children in terms they will understand. They should also be available to answer their children's questions. It is helpful to take older children along to doctor appointments so that they can understand the cancer treatments and what their parent is going through. There are support groups for children who have a parent with cancer. Parents should ask around at their hospital or treatment facility to find out what types of classes or support groups are available to them and their children.

Having a support system is vital to your peace of mind when you're fighting cancer. A parent needs someone to care for their children when they are undergoing chemotherapy and other treatments. Children can be a great source of strength for their parents and a single hug from a child can make the whole day brighter. A parent who has cancer should spend as much time with their children as they possibly can. Children are a reminder of the good things in life as well as hope for the future. Just spending a few minutes with your children can be a great reminder of why you are going through treatments to fight this terrible disease.

By: David Haas